Eleanor Gordon-Smith

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I’m nearly 30, a virgin and feel lonely. The manosphere is trying to draw me in – where else can I seek assurance?

The manosphere says this type of suffering is targeted neglect, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. But your s...

Sep 17, 2026 5 min read

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My mother-in-law buys overly girly clothes for my daughter. I try to be gracious but it kills me – do I tell her to stop?

There’s a risk in trying to get our girls away from frilly skirts that we swing all the way to a different kind of enfor...

Sep 10, 2026 5 min read